I was 9 years old when CrazySexyCool hit stores in 1995. For a little girl with aspirations of being a singer, TLC had a major influence on me. I'd watch MTV while singing their songs at the top of my lungs. One day during a sleepover with my closest friends, we dressed in baggy jeans… Continue reading CrazySexyCool: The Positive Thinking Tip
I don't know whether to nod in agreement or hang my head in shame whenever I read an article on how 20-somethings operate in the workplace. Our desire for flexible jobs, over-confidence in our ability to work in high-paying and powerful positions and our sense of entitlement have been talked about in many online news… Continue reading What’s Wrong With My Millennial Employees?
Along with dozens of other qualities I desire in a lifetime partner, his potential to make money, his current income, his beliefs and money practices have been recently added to the list. This is a huge deal to me, for I always endorsed the fantasy that all I needed is love in a relationship in… Continue reading I Ain’t Sayin I’m A Gold Digger…
Always have your vex money at hand, when a man takes you on a date. You never know when he may leave you with the check!
According to the life goals that I set for myself at the age of 16 years old, I am a drastic failure. I should be married with one child; have a PhD in clinical psychology; have my own mental health practice; make $85k per year; and drive a Mercedes-Benz. My life at 28 is nowhere… Continue reading 5 Lies Every Twentysomething Needs to Stop Believing
I was sleep-deprived and exhausted, the morning after my prom, but when I saw that large Spelman blue envelope in the mailbox that held my acceptance letter into Spelma College, nothing else mattered. Spelman College was my first choice college since my junior year in high school. It's funny though; my mom was the one… Continue reading What She Gave To Me: A Spelman Story
Some women behave as if the gates of hell will open up and snatch them up if they are still single on their 30th birthday. The pressure to marry is real to them, but not me. I am okay being an unmarried 30 year old. And here's why.
This link was a quick reminder that I do not have to do ANYTHING to attract a man. Being my beautifully amazing self is enough. A Daddy's Letter to his Little Girl