6 Things You Should Never Say To Someone

?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????People say the dumbest things. It’s almost as if they speak before they think and if you’re like me, you’re often on the receiving end of thoughtless comments. I still believe that people have pure intentions; they don’t mean to offend you, but they do, unfortunately. Why not keep a running list of things to NEVER say to someone. I’ll list mine, and you can list yours in the comment section.

When are you going to get your hair done? 

I was trying something new with my naturally coiled hair when someone asked me this question. I was a bit taken aback by her question, for I had spent 4 hours twisting my hair in the style it was in. Err on the side of caution: if we’re not currently in a conversation discussing hair, then don’t ask me when I’ll be getting it done.

You look tired.

Another way of telling me I look like crap. That’s not nice.

Have you gained weight?

Unless she is trying to gain weight, I wouldn’t mention this. Women are already conscientious about our weight.

Your ex is married/engaged/executive at a Fortune 500.

There is a reason why he’s an ‘ex.’ And there is a reason why I am quickly changing the subject whenever you mention his name.

You look cute today.

So, I didn’t look “cute” yesterday and the day before that?

Are you pregnant?

Excuse me while I do 2,000 crunches. I’ll wear all black tomorrow to hide what looks like a pregnant belly. And to answer your question, NO, I’m not pregnant.

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